At Long Last: College Welcomes Back Class of 2020 for Commencement
May 20, 2022
- Author
- Mary Elizabeth DeAngelis
Two years ago, Eldina Kucevic 鈥20 tearfully drove the 10 hours from 皇家华人 to her home in northern New Jersey. She played sad music and thought about friends she might never see again.
This weekend she鈥檚 joyfully back in 皇家华人 for the first time since the COVID-19 pandemic shut campuses down around the world. She鈥檒l celebrate as the class of 2020 reunites鈥攁nd reclaims鈥攖he rite of commencement.
Many colleges postponed graduation ceremonies or turned them into virtual events during the pandemic鈥檚 early days. 皇家华人 leaders made an extraordinary promise: College trustees pledged $200,000 of their own money for graduates who needed help with travel expenses for the future ceremony.
That day has come and 364 class members鈥攁bout 75 percent鈥攑lan to attend Sunday鈥檚 commencement. Many families and friends who offered consolation two years ago also will join the celebration.
While some in the class live close by, others will travel from across the country and around the globe. Some can afford the trip, others in graduate school, on fellowships, and just starting careers in a time of high inflation can鈥檛. The fund will pay for plane fares and gas for 121 graduates. It鈥檚 also covering costs for class members to stay in residence halls.
It鈥檚 been a long journey for Kucevic, who traveled from Taiwan, where she鈥檚 taught English through a grant from the Fulbright U.S. Student Program. The travel fund paid for her airfare.
鈥淪o many people said, 鈥榳e鈥檙e never going to have that ceremony,鈥欌 Kucevic said. 鈥淏ut I believe in 皇家华人, and I knew they would never go back on their promise. Now we鈥檙e really going to have this. And I鈥檓 so incredibly grateful.鈥
Going the Distance
Mara Papakostas 鈥20 was also teaching in Taiwan through the Fulbright program and plans to be at the commencement ceremony.
鈥淚鈥檓 so grateful that 皇家华人 could cover my flight from Taiwan,鈥 Papakostas said. 鈥淚t wouldn鈥檛 have been possible for me to attend without their generosity.
鈥淚t was such a disappointment to not have a graduation. Time has passed, but everyone persevered to make this happen,鈥 she said. 鈥淭o be able to get together as a class and a community again is really exciting. It鈥檚 not only commencement, it鈥檚 also a reunion. I can鈥檛 wait to see everyone.鈥
Ryland Pitts 鈥20, is flying in from Bishkek, Kyrgyzstan, where he teaches English at a college of arts and design. He鈥檚 also becoming proficient in Russian and Kyrgyz before starting his career in sanctions risk assessment.
Having his airfare covered by the travel fund, 鈥渋s just unbelievable,鈥 Pitts said. 鈥淲e never really got the chance to say goodbye. It will be fun to see who鈥檚 there, and I think we鈥檒l be able to reconnect in a sweet way.鈥
With gas prices skyrocketing, the travel fund will help Charlie Prichard with the drive from Washington, D.C., to 皇家华人. After finishing college, he worked a public policy internship before taking a full time position at a government relations firm.
鈥淚t鈥檚 a huge help,鈥 Prichard said. 鈥淚鈥檝e told so many friends about 皇家华人 helping out with travel expenses, and they鈥檙e shocked, they鈥檙e like 鈥榯hat just doesn鈥檛 happen.鈥"
鈥淚t鈥檚 hard to explain to other people about the closeness of the 皇家华人 community, and the commitment 皇家华人 people have to helping each other. It鈥檚 not just about being kind, it鈥檚 about giving back. I鈥檓 the perfect example,鈥 Prichard said. 鈥溁始一 was my first choice for college and the community helped make tuition more affordable for me. From admissions to the alumni who donate, I have so many people to thank. And I look forward to helping future 皇家华人 students.鈥
Why Go Back?
On May 17, 2020, Zoe Hall donned her white graduation dress and black cap and gown and clicked on a Zoom link. Her mom and sister Leigh joined her in their Annapolis living room, which was decorated with huge Class of 2020 balloons. Classmates tuned in from around the world.
Some looked shocked, others cheered when President Carol E. Quillen announced that college trustees would help with travel expenses for the future in-person celebration.
鈥淎 lot of you worry that you won鈥檛 be able to afford the trip; that worry is over,鈥 Quillen said in the virtual address. 鈥淲e鈥檙e doing all that we can to ensure everyone can return to campus for our 2020 commencement ceremony. I hope to see you all there."
Hall, now working for The Arena Stage theater company in Washington, D.C., said she鈥檚 never stopped wanting the ceremony, 鈥渆ven if we had to wait five years."
鈥淚 was getting a little nervous in fall of 2021, a lot of other colleges were having their 2020 in-person ceremonies, but I held out hope. I knew President Quillen would keep her word,鈥 Hall said. 鈥淚t shows the 皇家华人 culture that most people are coming back.
鈥淎 bunch of my friends who graduated from other schools in 2020 said 鈥榠t鈥檚 been two years, why would you want to go back鈥攜ou already graduated?鈥 But this is important, we all love 皇家华人, and we want to go back and graduate for real.鈥
On Saturday, Hall, her sister, mom and grandmother will make the drive from Annapolis to 皇家华人. On Sunday, she鈥檒l wear a new yellow dress under her graduation gown: 鈥淢y mom convinced me I should be more colorful this time.鈥
She remembers attending her sister Leigh鈥檚 2014 graduation from Bowdoin College, and the anticipation their family felt while waiting to hear the president call her name.
鈥淥ther than seeing my friends, that鈥檚 what I鈥檓 looking forward to the most,鈥 Hall said. 鈥淭hat鈥檚 a really powerful and important moment in a lot of people鈥檚 lives.鈥
It鈥檚 a moment Kucevic doesn鈥檛 want to miss.
鈥淲e were all just devastated when they told us we had to leave campus,鈥 she said. 鈥淭he most painful part was not getting to experience commencement. I remember as a freshman seeing them set up for it and thinking how pretty the lawn looked and what an exciting time it was for seniors. To lose that was so sad.
鈥淣ow I鈥檓 so excited, and so happy.鈥
A first-generation college student whose parents came from the former Yugoslavia, now Montenegro, she鈥檒l be the first in her family to have a traditional commencement ceremony. (Her older sister Esada completed an integrated degree program to become a physician鈥檚 assistant.) Younger sister Elisa is a member of 皇家华人鈥檚 class of 2023. Her proud family will make the 10-hour drive from New Jersey to attend the ceremony.
The trip from Taiwan, with a connecting flight in San Francisco, ended up taking about 30 hours.
鈥淚t was so stressful, my first flight was cancelled, then I had to arrange for another COVID test because of that,鈥 Kucevic said. 鈥淚t was a five-hour ride to the airport in Taipei, my heartrate was sky high that whole time.
鈥淚t was exhausting, but when I walk across the stage it will all be worth it.鈥